Alek Minassian and Angry Virgins
That is what this post seeks to do.
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The final Facebook post prior to the Toronto attack of the
attacker himself was the following.
Let’s define a few terms: Incel means involuntary celibate
(accidentally virgin); it is a social group like the alt-right. Chads refer to desirable
men and Stacy’s refer to the pretty women that surround Chads. Elliot Rodger
was a 22-year-old virgin with no social skills who went on a murder spree.
Because society collectively made him agonizingly postpone sex for so long, as
a means of retribution he kills a bunch of random people thereby collectively
punishing society..?
Scary Kid He Was
Basically, the man Alek was an absolutely sex starved outcast.
He was so sex starved that he referred to his own condition as an incel. The
sexual frustration felt by the incel movement is an extreme form of frustration
that is commonly found milder in typical young virgin men. His frustration
reflects a wider frustration of men who aren’t socially adept. With the
dissolution of arranged marriages in the West and the rise sexual openness,
came an abundance of incel men.
How?
Arranged marriages assisted those men and women who could
not find partners by themselves and helped to eliminate male frustration. This
is why men and women typically shun getting an arranged marriage because it
signifies that the individual does not have the persona to attract a mate by
themselves. Without arranged marriages, the burden of initiating romantic relationships
falls upon the individual, particularly men. In the free market, there are
necessarily winners and necessarily losers; similarly, in the sexual
marketplace there are necessarily those who get partners (maybe multiple) and
those who get none. Due to the variation in the quality of the male product
(some have better social skills, others have better genetics) as well as the
male burden to initiate relationships, it is unfortunately inevitable that some
men end up incel.
Because men are the forward sex (i.e. they initiate) and are
slightly polygynous (in nearly all societies), this results in a higher amount
of men in the sexual marketplace. Thus, it is far more likely that a female is
approached despite her lacking in social skills, a career, and beauty. If a man
lacks social skills, a career, or courage to approach (because, frankly, women
terrify many men), he is done for and unless he learns to improve himself, his
genetic lineage will be terminated. The sexual marketplace is brutal. Those men
who live outside the culture of arranged marriages who cannot learn to improve
themselves or initiate contact for whatever reason will remain incel
indefinitely and will grow a fiery intense jealousy of those who have what
these unfortunate men do not.
Although moving up in life was near to impossible in traditional
cultures, the communal pressure to get married as soon as they were able
ensured that everyone got married. Unlike, today, where the burden to find a
partner is entirely on your own head. It’s a dangerous game. In more
traditional communities, when you were born you would likely get married to
someone in your social circle or someone who lives nearby. Arranged marriages
made sure everyone got married. This culture of monogamy was sexual communism. It
was at least a socially sustainable system. From the Islamic perspective though, both types of marriages are allowed. If you live in such a society,
appreciate it because it’s a jungle out here in the West.
In the sexual marketplace with so much opportunity to grow
(in the West, they currently do not live in a feudalistic nor a caste system
and have the ability to move up in social status), the incel men have no one
else to blame except themselves. As a man who lives in the West, most of one’s
attraction is not based on your genes; it comes through hard work and
experience. If you sit at home and play World of Warcraft all day and deny
yourself experience and hard work, then they deserve to be an incel. It is the
man’s job to be the forward sex, so stop moaning and work for yourself damn it.
If the days of arranged marriage are long gone, we can at
least try to help the male losers be less losery to prevent incel rage and
provide better, higher quality partners for women. Also, we prevent murder
sprees too, that’s good. How we help? Change their mindset.
Let these losers know that they aren’t entitled to anything
in the world. Let them know that they are the ones who protrude into the world
and that they shouldn’t be the ones expecting to receive anything. Let them
know they have two options, to approach with the high probability of rejection (with
some probability of success) or to not tantalize yourself by creeping on women
(with zero probability of success. Let them know that rejection is better than
regret, even if it means a thousand rejections Let these losers know the world
is theirs for the taking and no one will give it to them. Let them know that it
comes with hard work on your career and on yourself. Also, let them know that
their entire existence should not be in the pursuit of some ephemeral pleasure
that will leave after a minute. Let them know there is more to life than just sex
and fame, and that a good life is the result of contentment with your current
condition or a result of hard work. Hit the gym, hit the books, be courageous,
be bold, and be Chad.
Also, don’t bully kids.