Alpha Muslims
Islamic Flavor
Umar (rh) was known to have dismissed Shurahbil bin Hasanah and put Muaawiyah in his place. Shurahbil asked, "Are you not pleased with me?" to which Umar responded "No, I think well of you, but I wanted a man who is more capable." Umar used to also say, "Oh, Allah, I complain to you of the capability of the evildoer and the incapability of the trustworthy one."
Furthermore, Umar also saw a man who walked in an "affected, feeble, overly slow gait" to show his excessive humility. Umar caned him literally and then caned him metaphorically, "Do not cause our Religion to die, for if you do that, then may Allah cause you to die!"
In another instance of a similar incident, he said, "Oh young man, raise your head. True humility is in the heart and not shown through the body and face. If anyone shows his humility through his body in excess of what is contained in his heart, then he is a hypocrite".
Umar used to like for young pious people to wear nice clothes and perfume.
"Your personalities should demonstrate the respect of Islam. Do not show yourselves as a weak and humiliated people."
Introduction
Generally, and not universally, girls want guys to initiate everything in all stages of a relationship. Muslim girls are girls and will wait back to be approached by their “Prince Charming” i.e. an alpha. They do not want to have to approach a timid guy i.e. a beta. What is best for them is a moral person, a person who practices Islam properly. Therefore, rarely do who women want and who they should have be the same person.
As with men, who they are attracted to while in the state of marriage may be different than who they should be attracted to in a state of marriage. That being said, it is clear that Muslim women are not being attacked for being women, they are attacked for being human.
Umar (rh) was known to have dismissed Shurahbil bin Hasanah and put Muaawiyah in his place. Shurahbil asked, "Are you not pleased with me?" to which Umar responded "No, I think well of you, but I wanted a man who is more capable." Umar used to also say, "Oh, Allah, I complain to you of the capability of the evildoer and the incapability of the trustworthy one."
Furthermore, Umar also saw a man who walked in an "affected, feeble, overly slow gait" to show his excessive humility. Umar caned him literally and then caned him metaphorically, "Do not cause our Religion to die, for if you do that, then may Allah cause you to die!"
In another instance of a similar incident, he said, "Oh young man, raise your head. True humility is in the heart and not shown through the body and face. If anyone shows his humility through his body in excess of what is contained in his heart, then he is a hypocrite".
Umar used to like for young pious people to wear nice clothes and perfume.
Introduction
Generally, and not universally, girls want guys to initiate everything in all stages of a relationship. Muslim girls are girls and will wait back to be approached by their “Prince Charming” i.e. an alpha. They do not want to have to approach a timid guy i.e. a beta. What is best for them is a moral person, a person who practices Islam properly. Therefore, rarely do who women want and who they should have be the same person.
As with men, who they are attracted to while in the state of marriage may be different than who they should be attracted to in a state of marriage. That being said, it is clear that Muslim women are not being attacked for being women, they are attacked for being human.
Unmarried Muslim guys can then be separated into 3 categories.
1.
Non-practicing Betas: This is your socialist
nerdy friend who gets nervous all the time. Barely got a prom date. May or may
not have tried weed; may or may not be smart.
2.
Practicing Betas: This is the Muslim guy who won’t
talk to women partially because he is scared to and partially because he thinks
it is haram (he is right to an extent). In all actuality though, he is thirsty
as hell and wants to be approached rather than to approach. Even if he does
talk to women, he is not ‘attractive’ and has no ‘game’.
3.
Non-practicing Alphas: These guys go to night
clubs on the weekends. They think they’re white and have ample experience in
pick-up artistry. They are very adept socially and likely have a sexual history.
Now who approaches the Muslim girls, particularly those who
are visibly Muslim?
Not white guys and not betas. Muslim women can’t marry non-Muslim men that approach a Muslim woman, unless she herself
is non-practicing. Females are humans too and they may give in to their temptations.
Furthermore, non-practicing and practicing betas will not approach simply
because they are intimidated betas. The practicing beta is better than the non-practicing one
slightly because he is the one she should have, but not the one she wants. Therefore, he will get married to her via arranged marriage.
The only category that will approach a Muslim woman will be
the non-practicing alpha, but why should a non-practicing alpha approach a
Muslim woman if he can’t get sex?
She may want to marry him. One reason is that she is
fundamentally limited in the number of partners she could have; being a Muslim
woman wipes out 98% of the American population to begin with.
Since she can only be attracted to those who she interacts with, and all men who she interacts with are non-practicing alphas who approach her, she will be attracted to non-practicing alphas i.e. douchebags. Conversely, all the men that she ‘should’ have are timid. She may get impatient if she is conscious about ‘the wall’, i.e. sudden decline of male interest in her at the age of 30. She then may marry the attractive non-practicing alpha, arranged marry a practicing beta, or just grow old with her house cats.
Since she can only be attracted to those who she interacts with, and all men who she interacts with are non-practicing alphas who approach her, she will be attracted to non-practicing alphas i.e. douchebags. Conversely, all the men that she ‘should’ have are timid. She may get impatient if she is conscious about ‘the wall’, i.e. sudden decline of male interest in her at the age of 30. She then may marry the attractive non-practicing alpha, arranged marry a practicing beta, or just grow old with her house cats.
If she would want to marry non-practicing alpha, then she should know that he
has played the field before her! He likely would be trying to get married to a pure/pious
wife; that is far more desirable than impure women to men. Regardless, Muslim girls
in general rarely get approached by men who are at least slightly desirable to
them. To solve this issue, we must create a fourth category: the practicing alpha "the Alpha Muslim".
By sculpting the archetype of "the Alpha Muslim", we empower Muslim men in
their social lives as well. The very presence of this archetype inspires practicing betas who are struggling the get married. Non-practicing alphas out of admiration for the practicing
alphas could potentially jump on the bandwagon and become an Alpha Muslim. Being an Alpha Muslim makes being Muslim cool again.
The Alpha Muslim is aggressive, courageous, charming and observes the limits of God. These are men, who recognize their inherent desire for women yet channel it through marriage. They are socially dominant and powerful in a given situation. They are well liked and have a high social status. He will defend his group against aggressors and has the capacity to intimidate. Yet at the same time, this must be a man who doesn’t touch or make excessive eye contact with women outside of marriage (despite knowing that touch and eye contact is a vehicle for attraction). He has the ability to seduce but he chooses not to. He holds back his anger while other people know how wrathful his anger can be. How he balances his 'attractiveness' and his consistent obedience to God is the real accomplishment of this individual. This is the man who Muslim women want to have and should have for their own satisfaction.
Behold the gem-like nature Alpha Muslim.
The Alpha Muslim is aggressive, courageous, charming and observes the limits of God. These are men, who recognize their inherent desire for women yet channel it through marriage. They are socially dominant and powerful in a given situation. They are well liked and have a high social status. He will defend his group against aggressors and has the capacity to intimidate. Yet at the same time, this must be a man who doesn’t touch or make excessive eye contact with women outside of marriage (despite knowing that touch and eye contact is a vehicle for attraction). He has the ability to seduce but he chooses not to. He holds back his anger while other people know how wrathful his anger can be. How he balances his 'attractiveness' and his consistent obedience to God is the real accomplishment of this individual. This is the man who Muslim women want to have and should have for their own satisfaction.
Behold the gem-like nature Alpha Muslim.